Adoption Blog

Gender in Adoption
How gender preferences show up in adoption paperwork and the home study, and questions to consider before you choose.

How to Support a Birth Mom After Placement
How adoptive parents can support a birth mother after placement through openness, thoughtful gestures and care for her grief.

Making Adoption accessible, Ethical, Collaborative, & Well-informed
How fundraising helps Absolute Love, a nonprofit, keep adoption accessible, ethical, collaborative and well-informed.

“Our” Birth Mom?
Why words matter in adoption, and why saying “our birth mom” deserves a second look by adoptive families.

What is ICPC?
What ICPC (the Interstate Compact on the Placement of Children) means when your adoption crosses state lines, and how to make the most of the wait.

The Home Inspection: What To Expect
What to expect when your home study provider visits your home, and simple ways to get ready for the adoption home inspection.

Woof, Woof, Meow : Pets and The Home Study.
What your social worker will ask about your dogs, cats and other pets during an adoption home study, and how to prepare.

How To Be A Good Friend To Someone Who Is Adopting
How friends and family can support someone who is adopting through timelines, home study paperwork and the emotional ups and downs.

Got Milk?: Birth Mother’s, Breast Milk & Adoption.
Can a birth mother pump breast milk for the baby she places? One birth mother’s story and what to consider if this feels right for you.

Tell Me A Story: Our 5 Favorite Kids Books About Adoption
Our five favorite children’s books about adoption, chosen for open adoption and positive language, to help start conversations at home.

The Skinny On Post Adoption Contact Agreements
What post adoption contact agreements are, how they work, and why they matter to birth mothers and adoptive families.

The Baby Is Coming! The Hospital Experience For Prospective Adoptive Families
What hopeful adoptive parents can expect at the hospital when the baby is coming, and how to prepare for the many variables.

Goodbye For Now: The Hospital Experience of One Birth Mom Part 2
Part two of a birth mother’s hospital story: treasuring the days after birth and saying goodbye for now in an open adoption.

Meant To Be Theirs: The Hospital Experience of One Birth Mother
A birth mother’s story of preparing her heart for the hospital experience of adoption, written for expectant and adoptive parents alike.

Holiday Gifts: A Birth Mother’s Perspective
A birth mother’s perspective on holiday gift-giving in open adoption, with ideas that help both families feel connected.